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Can't figure Things Out
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Can't figure Things Out 5 Years ago  
Sometimes I just cannot figure out my crazy emotions. I am torn between thinking I am the "issue" and thinking the person I am in a relationship with is the "issue."

The bottom line is I don't feel as important as I used to. Like everything else takes priority, whether it be the pets, being tired, being preoccupied with other things, etc. It just seems like it's not the same. The intimacy level, sex and otherwise, is much lower in intensity and frequency. I am not happy with this. It's only been a year into this relationship.

So then I start thinking, well, you can't rely on someone else to make you happy. Just do what you need to do for you. And I do. But then I just can't get rid of those lingering feelings.

So I end up pushing it all down....drinking more than normal, not eating healthy. Numbing my emotions. If it's just my issues rearing their ugly heads, I just need to know. SO I can stop feeling upset. Ugghhh. Suddenly being alone seems better than this. lamy
 
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Re:Can't figure Things Out 5 Years ago  
Hi lamy Your relationship sounds like it's running it's natural course. The honeymoon phase is over and life settles into a predetermined pattern unless we choose to keep the fires burning brightly.

If there are issues, no matter whose it is, a sober discussion is in order. It takes two people to form a relationship and if the commitment is true, you can both find the answers to soothe your mind. Another option is to take some time away to mull things over and confront those feelings that you keep pushing down. Then return for a heart-to-heart. However you choose to find your answers, may you find your peace . . . hugs
 
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