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TOPIC: Lonely

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SempreDomani (User)
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Lonely 7 Years, 9 Months ago  
I didn't realise how important human contact actually was until i appartantly lost the knack for it.

I'm really, really struggling right now. I left school last year and i'm not coping with the huge change that was suddenly thrown at me. I've always had close friends, lots of hobbies and interests, etc. Now i feel like i have very few friends (who have gone off to uni anyway so i'm losing contact with them) and i'm losing enthusiasm rapidly. I didn't go through seven years of school trying hard for THIS. To go to uni and hate every minute of it and start missing lectures and not doing work because i don't see the point.
All i do is sit at home, go to the few lectures i have and feel so very bored and lonely in the meantime. I am repeatedly woken in the early hours of the morning by my boyfriend ringing after a night out and i act really jealous and off with him and although i know it makes me a horrible person, i resent the fact that he's made friends so easily and goes off getting drunk every night and having fun whilst i'm sat at home doing nothing just waiting for him to call.
I actually don't see the point in things now. I feel like there's something inside me STOPPING me from being able to relax and relate to other people and it's making me miserable. I just want to go back to being fifteen/sixteen when i was so happy, confident and strong.
 
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Re:Lonely 7 Years, 9 Months ago  
I remember you used to write about riding. Are you still riding horses?

If not, maybe you could find a barn that needs some help, or a place you could take lessons. Maybe there would be people there you could get to know.

I remember this was a wonderful way for my daughter to feel part of a group of very different people .... but all of them loved horses.

And, isn't music something that you're very good at too? Is there some kind of center where you could teach music? Or participate on a volunteer basis? Doing something for others (especially when we can do something we're good at) really helps.

Good luck!

Ceejay
 
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Re:Lonely 7 Years, 5 Months ago  
Hi SempreDomani,

I guess this post is pretty old. Are you doing any better these days?

((hugs))
 
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Re:Lonely 7 Years, 4 Months ago  
Loneliness is really a bad thing which can happen with anyone. I too have undergone the same way when I used to be in the University first year. Missing lectures, avoiding new friends, sticky and a whole lot of nervousness. This would make me more irritating and would dislike attending lectures. I did overcome a bit of it with making new friends and being more interactive. I think this should help others too!
 
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Re:Lonely 7 Years, 4 Months ago  
I know exactly what you're going through. I don't even have a girlfriend. I moved to California to be closer to my family, but I moved to a town where my Father and Step mom lives and the rest of my family lives about two hours away. Turns out I don't care for my Dad much the more time I've spent around him.

All of my friends are in Oregon, the only time I see anyone is when I go to the store, go to the gym or take an Oregon trip. It's been about nine months now and I'm at the point where if I don't make some new friends within a couple months I'll be moving back to Oregon.

It's very true, if it's one thing us humans need to stay sane it's human contact. As Joe Rogan aptly put it, "The worst punishment in prison is solitary confinement! That's gotta tell you something."
 
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Re:Lonely 7 Years, 4 Months ago  
You can also read a great old book called, "No man is an island." Great insight into the necessity of social interaction for all human beings. We are not meant to be alone.
 
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