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Tuesday, 10 May 2005

Posted by: 4Him on Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - 11:00 PM

 Since my first panic attack in 2002, I have been learning what it means to believe and rely o­n my Redeemer, not o­ne day at a time, but literally, moment by moment. For almost 3 years, fear was my constant companion. Like Job in the Bible, I had friends who tried to comfort me. They would remind me that fear is not from God. That perfect love casts out fear. I knew that, and I couldn’t understand why I was having these panic attacks.

 I was a Christian. I loved Jesus. I loved God. But from March 2002 to December 2004, I had over 60 panic attacks. I had to quit my job, give up singing in the choir, give up Sunday School and church. I became agoraphobic and couldn’t leave my house for fear that I’d have a panic attack. I couldn't attend family and holiday celebrations. I couldn't tolerate anti-depressants and could o­nly tolerate Xanax in small amounts, which put me to sleep throughout the day.

I struggled with depression for a year. I really identified with Job’s words in chapter 3, verses 25-26: “What I feared has come upon me; what I dreaded has happened to me. I have no peace, no quietness; I have no rest, but o­nly turmoil.” All of my life, I had always been afraid of o­ne thing—that there was something wrong with me.

Some things had happened in my childhood that had convinced me at an early age that I was defective. That I didn’t deserve anything good that happened to me. My husband, my children, my job. I didn’t deserve any of God’s blessings, and I thought this lie was true because I wasn’t coping very well. I tried to be a good wife, mother, daughter, sister, Christian, friend—but I couldn’t do it all. I couldn’t juggle all of those balls. The harder I tried, the more balls I dropped, and that o­nly reinforced the fact that there must be something wrong with me. Everyone else was coping.

There must be some secret to life I didn’t know about. My days became all about my stress and my failure. After 2 years of panic attacks, I was desperate, and I cried out to God to help me. I put 2 scriptures o­n my bathroom mirror--Philipians 4:6-7; and Isaiah 43:1. I asked to be put o­n my church's prayer list. A few months later, a friend invited me to Beth Moore's Believing God Bible study at our church. It was very hard for me to walk into that room, and I sat trembling in silence, praying I wouldn't have an attack.

Somehow I managed to focus and listen, and I saw a ray of hope. For the next 9 weeks, I plunged into the Bible. I found out Who God was and what He could do and what I could ask. I discovered Jesus wanted me to abide in Him daily and that without Him I could do nothing. I found out I could have more of the Holy Spirit, just by asking. I found out how to really talk to God, and I found out how to listen. I learned to start my day in Bible study and prayer. After 3 weeks of Bible study, I returned to church. The next week I rejoined the choir.

The next Sunday I attended Sunday School and sang in the choir. After doing Beth Moore's Breaking Free Bible study o­n my own, I began praying God’s Word over my panic attacks. I copied verses about fear o­n 3x5 cards and read them over and over. Now, when I sense a panic attack coming, I grab those Scriptures and pray them and thank God that He hears me and has taken up my cause. I don't stop praying until the panic goes away. It always does, and in its place is peace. My panic is no longer severe (only a racing heart--my cue to get my cards) and never lasts as long.

God has so blessed me and loved o­n me that I want everyone who suffers from panic attacks, anxiety, and depression to know about Him. My eyes have been opened to the truth about suffering. Sometimes we suffer so we can comfort others with the comfort we've received. And like Job, I am being restored. I began a part-time job last week.

My last panic attack was February 1, 2005. I’ve never gone this long without an attack. As Job said, “But those who suffer He delivers in their suffering; He speaks to them in their affliction. He is wooing you from the jaws of distress to a spacious place free from restriction…. Job 36:15-16. I discovered my freedom in Christ Jesus.

 

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 - 10:23 PM

Tomorrow will be my 2-year anniversary at Panic Survivor. I can hardly believe that 2 years has gone by since I first posted HOW I’M BEATING PANIC AND ANXIETY. (I think that was the title.) A year before joining, I had embarked on a spiritual journey to know God and believe Him, and a year later, I had discovered how praying Scripture could stop my panic attacks and bring peace. I take no credit for my success. The Lord God did it all.

Tonight, I decided to write down in one place the steps I took toward recovery in hopes that it might help someone else onto the path of freedom from panic and anxiety. By following these steps, I experienced God in a way I had never known before. I felt His Presence, His pleasure, His peace, His joy, His love. He proved Himself to me so many times during my journey through depression, panic, agoraphobia, and social anxiety. He still proves Himself to me. Even though I no longer suffer with those 4 millstones around my neck, I still need my Lord every day. Because I didn’t just fall into depression, panic, agoraphobia, and social anxiety. My flawed thinking was a major part of my problem. My response to stress, sickness, confrontations, situations, plus my self-absorption, selfish desires and selfish decisions all helped dig the pit I fell in. And it would be so easy to slip back into those ways again without my Rock.
 
Step 1
BELIEVE. Believe God loves you and has not abandoned you. Believe He is for you and wants to help you overcome your anxiety and fears. Believe that He has plans for you. “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11) God wants us to believe Him. “You are my witnesses,” declares the LORD, “and my servant whom I have chosen, so that you may know and believe me and understand that I am He.” (Is. 43:10)
 

Step 2
PRAY OUT LOUD.
(a) Get alone with God and pray aloud. Repent of any unconfessed sin. You may be harboring unforgiveness against someone, or bitterness, or hatred. You may even be angry at God. Lay whatever it is at His feet. Ask Him to take it—to remove it from you. This is not an easy step. For me, because of the abuse in my background, it was a difficult step, but it is a necessary one. Trust that He is a good and just God. Nothing is worth robbing you of the peace and love of God. Ask Him to help you let go of the past. If, like me, you removed God from first place in your life, ask Him to forgive you. Tell Him you want to love Him with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength. Take yourself off the throne and let the Lord Jesus reign in your heart and in your life.

(b)Pray every morning. Make knowing Him and His will for your life your first priority. Ask Him to remind you to pray to Him throughout your day. Pray in humility and truth. Hide nothing from Him. He already knows your heart anyway. If it is impossible for you to pray out loud, then write your prayers in a journal. I go outside whenever I need to pray and my husband is home.

Step 3
ASK.
(a) Ask God for His help and guidance while you search for Him and His will for your life. Ask Him to give you more of what you lack—more faith, more belief, more trust. Give your panic disorder, depression, whatever has a stronghold on your life, to God. Lay it at His feet and ask Him to conquer it for you. I couldn’t stop my panic attacks, but God could and did by the power of His Word. Nothing is impossible for God. Nothing is too hard for Him. Come clean before Him whenever a situation or problem arises that threatens your peace. Ask Him to help you think as He thinks about the situation or problem. Counter every negative thought with God’s Word. That’s what having the mind of Christ means.

(b) Ask for the indwelling of the Holy Spirit every day. Ask God to fill you and thank Him for the filling. If you ask for the Holy Spirit, God will freely give it. We have His Word on it. “If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!” (Luke 11:13) The Holy Spirit will guide you and counsel you. (John 14:26) He will empower you and encourage you. He will put Bible verses in your mind when you need them. Through Him, God’s Word will come alive as you read it, and you will gain spiritual understanding. (1 Corin. 2:14)

Step 4
READ. Read God’s Word every single day. Believe what it says. God’s Word will renew your mind. Soon positive thoughts will replace negative ones. Agree with God’s Word as you read it. Talk to God about what you’re reading. Buy an indepth Bible study or join a Bible study group. This will help you stay in the Word. Pray Scripture that deals with fear and anxiety every morning and every night. (I wrote verses on 3x5 cards and carried them with me whenever I had to leave the house. See Help, Inspiration forum, Bible Verses for Panic Survivors) Let God’s words of peace replace anxious thoughts.

Step 5
BE STILL. Take time to sit before God in silence. Ask Him to search your heart and bring up any unconfessed or buried sin you may need to confess. Ask Him to mend the broken places in your heart while you wait in stillness. I’ve asked Him to erase all hurtful words in my memory and to replace them with His healing words. Ask Him to reveal Himself to you and let you know that you are His own. It may take some time to tame your thoughts and keep your mind clear while you sit before your Lord. But something that helped me was envisioning Him driving away anxious thoughts from my mind like He drove away the moneychangers from the temple. A lot of important lessons that God taught me were while I was on my knees before Him and listening.

Step 6
PRAISE. Praise God every day for what He is doing in your life. Praise Him throughout your day, as you go about your work. Work as if working for the Lord. Expect Him to show up somehow during your day. Sometimes it may be a coworker who stops in just to say how much they appreciate you. Sometimes someone may hug you and say, “I just love you,” and then walk away, continuing what they were doing. (That happened to me twice!) I believe that God uses others to speak to us and encourage us. Try to think of problems you encounter as opportunities to walk by faith and put your trust in God. Pray about them and then let Him work things out for you. “The LORD will fight for you. You need only to be still.” (Exodus 14:14)

Step 7
SHARE. As soon as you feel comfortable, get in Sunday School and church. Being with other believers refreshes our spirits. Ask your class or department to pray for you. Three years ago, I put myself on my church’s email prayer list. Be sure and pray for others as well. Share with others about your journey as you feel led. Let them know what God is doing in your life. Encourage others on their walk.

Well, I believe that’s it. I hope I haven’t left anything out. As you can see, this journey is definitely not for the faint-hearted. But if you are like I was, desperate to be set free, having tried everything else and nothing worked, then you will find the hard work and effort of this journey will be well worth it! There are so many benefits of knowing and believing God. Not having panic attacks is just one of them. I am forever changed. I will never be the same. God has proved His love to me. I know He will do the same for anyone who desperately seeks Him.  

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taterfay said:

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I know how scary panic disorder can be and I am so glad you have found some solace from it. Blessings!
 
October 24, 2007
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speace said:

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This is beautifully written... I cannot say enough about releasing the past, admitting our wrongs (to forgive ourselves and others) and relying on the Alpha and Omega - thank you for sharing your steps of recovery.
 
October 30, 2007
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michelle_40 said:

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thank you for sharing it
 
November 24, 2007
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SolvingPanicAttacks.com said:

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Praise God
God is always our source of love, strength and understanding. We should seek him before all else and it seems you found that out and have conquered you affliction.

The greatest thing about being a child of God is know that he made each and everyone of us just the way we are and that is good enough for me. Love the Lord your God with all your heart, sole and might. May all glory be his and remember one thing. The victory is already his and yours too since you are a child of God.
 
November 03, 2009 | url
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cowboy said:

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sorry
Sorry to hear of your pain and suffering.
Perhaps like Job, God will hear your prayers.
(and many others including my own)
 
November 22, 2009
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missmanders said:

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I love this post & reading it touched my heart. I, too, believe in God with all my heart & have been praying & praying for a miracle & being healed of this horrible panic attacks that i suffer everyday. I really need to find those fear verses in the bible & put them up for me to read as well....I just wanted to say congrats on beating these things & even though I don't know you....I am WAY proud of you! Please keep me in your prayers! I am going through them realllllllllllllllly bad right now.
 
December 15, 2009
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uticagirl said:

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Your Post
I loved reading your Post,,,, I feel the same way,,, but honestly sometimes i wonder if GOD is testing me ,, and thats why i deal with these panic attacks,,,, I trust in god and know that he is watching over me and i pray that soon these awful things will s
top.. Your post touched my heart,,,,,
 
December 24, 2009
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pyrodruidess said:

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I came back to the lord two weeks ago after a five year break due to losing my faith after a series of horrible situations. So far chruch and the good word has done tremedenous things for me and my healing proces... Thank you for this post, its so great to know where to look in my bible when things are at their worst to find the right words from god aboutnt our circumstances. Thank you, thank youh, thank you!
 
March 16, 2010
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OljaCutz said:

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Your post is very inspiring and would give a lot of people strength to get on with their lives, just believing in your self and having faith in god, thanks for sharing us this post.
 
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jmalic said:

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This is very touching, tears are slipping in my in my eyes. This will inspire many people who can read this one.
 
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