I TRUELY BELIEVE THAT HAPPINESS IS WHATEVER YOU WANT IT TO BE OR THINK IT IS BUT IF YOURE CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY THEN MAYBE MY TWO CENTS CAN HELP YOU FIGURE IT OUT. IF YOU CAN ADAPT TO ANY SITUATION THEN YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE PROBLEMS BEING SAD WITH HOW YOUR LIFE IS GOING. OF COURSE WE ALL HAVE OUR DAYS BUT LIFE IS MANY SEASONS AND LIKE SEASONS IT NEVER STAYS THE SAME. SO, THINK OF IT THIS WAY ,IF YOURE REALLY HAPPY NOW THEN MORE THAN LIKELY IT WONT CONTINUALLY STAY THAT WAY AND YOULL EVENTUALLY HAVE A ROUGH PATCH. BUT THE SAME IS TRUE  IF YOURE SAD, THEN ONCE THAT SEASON HAS PASSED THERE WILL BE BRIGHTER DAYS.

 SOME PEOPLE GET CAUGHT UP IN THINKING LIFE WILL ALWAYS SUCK AND REALLY IT ONLY SUCKS IF YOU THINK IT DOES. BECAUSE IF YOU CAN ADAPT AND MAKE THE BEST OUT OF ANY SITUATION THEN EVEN BAD DAYS ARENT THAT BAD AND THOSE BAD SEASONS DONT LAST SO LONG. I GUESS THATS WHAT KEEPS ME GOING SOMETIMES IS THE FACT I DONT GIVE UP AND I REALIZE THAT I HAVE BAD TIMES AND I HAVE GOOD TIMES. THE SAME CAN BE SAID ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS. PEOPLE WHO THINK THAT THERES THIS PERFECT GUY/GIRL OUT THERE WILL NEVER FIND THEM BECAUSE THE BAR CANT BE SET NO HIGHER THAN PERFECT. MOST STRIVE FOR AS CLOSE TO PERFECT AS THEY CAN BUT USUALLY YOU HAVE TO SETTLE FOR SOMEONE WHO HAS SOMETHING PERSONALITY WISE OR PHYSICALLY WRONG WITH THEM.

 I ALWAYS SAY YOU CANT HAVE BOTH, MEANING YOU EITHER GET A HOTT GIRL/GUY WITH NO PRSONALITY OR A UGLY GUY/GIRL WHO WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER. YOU JUST HAVE TO FIND THAT BALANCE BETWEEN UGLY AND INTELLIGENT LOL BOTTOM LINE IS LIFE IS ALL ABOUT ADAPTING EITHER IN RELATIONSHIPS, WORK OR JUST LIFE IN GENERAL. TRY TO ADAPT AND YOULL BE ABLE TO HANDLE ANYTHING LIFE THROWS AT YOU.

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